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Choosing Each Other Again

Why connection may be our most important act in 2026

Dear friends,

As we move into 2026, I want to pause and speak plainly.

After more than sixty years of listening to people, one truth has never changed:
Human beings are, at heart, friendly, collaborative, tribal creatures. We are meant to eat together, work together, raise children together, and care for one another.

So how did we arrive at a world that feels so isolated and divided?

Throughout history, a very small group has learned how to accumulate power, while most people simply want to live decent lives and feel safe in their communities. That imbalance did not begin with modern politics. It is ancient.

What concerns me most is not power itself.
It is isolation.

The pandemic accelerated a separation that was already underway. We were told to retreat, to stay apart, to stop gathering. For a tribal species, prolonged disconnection comes at a heavy psychological cost.

So what can we do?

We may not be able to change global systems on our own. But we can reconnect.

We can reach out to a friend we’ve lost touch with.
We can soften a family divide.
We can choose conversation over contempt.
We can remember that most people around us are not our enemies.

Connection is not naïve. It is an act of resistance.

At nearly 87 years old, I still believe in the basic goodness of the human species. I believe the future depends on whether ordinary people remember who they are — and choose one another again.

That is the heart of this week’s episode of Mind Body Health & Politics.

Golden light,
Dr. Richard L. Miller


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